Procedure 5208.3 - Critical Incidents - Loss of Life
1. | RESPONDING TO LOSS OF LIFEThe following steps should be taken when dealing with the loss of a life in the school/site community. Detailed information regarding critical incident response may be found in the Critical Incident Resource Manual.
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2. | LOWERING THE FLAGIt is customary that the school flag be lowered for the death of a student or staff member. The flag is raised again after the funeral/memorial service or on an agreed upon date. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||
3. | THE FUNERAL OR MEMORIAL SERVICEThe Principal should be in contact with the family regarding the funeral or memorial service and the school should work with the family in an effort to honour their wishes as much as possible. Wishes should be communicated to all staff and students as soon as they are known. The funeral or memorial service serves a definite purpose in helping to establish the reality of the death, provide closure, and extend support to the family and friends. When appropriate, staff and students should have the opportunity to attend the funeral or memorial service. In some cases it may be appropriate to make minor adjustments to the school day in order to accommodate those wishing to attend a service. Any proposed adjustments to the school day should be discussed with the Assistant Superintendent. A Principal or other staff member may be asked to speak at the service. It is often appropriate to do so. Many students may have had little experience with a funeral or memorial service. If students are likely to attend, school staff should make every effort to ascertain the cultural and religious context in which the service will be held. This information should then be shared with all students. Questions of particular interest may include:
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4. | SHRINESThe creation of “shrines,” special places of remembrance, and “ribbon campaigns” are now commonplace after a sudden death. Shrines often form at the site of the death, or at the student’s locker or desk. Often there is a very real need to create a shrine and it will be impossible to stop the creation of one. It is especially important for the Critical Incident Response Team to be proactive and use their wisdom and knowledge to modify either the type or location of a shrine. Special considerations:
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5. | SCHOOL RECOGNITION OF THE TRAGEDYA memorial service or dedication at the school in recognition of the tragedy may be considered in some cases. Schools should discuss the appropriateness of such an activity with the Assistant Superintendent. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||
6. | PHYSICAL MEMORIALSThe creation of a memorial is often suggested upon the death of a student or staff member, such as plaques on schools, rooms or playground equipment, creating a memorial garden, or the dedication of a school annual. It is not recommended that a school create a permanent monument in honour of the deceased without careful consideration and consultation with district senior management. Physical memorials may become problematic, as targets of vandalism and disrepair, or in cases of renovation or closure of the school. Financial memorials such as bursaries, scholarships and funding of charities seem to offer a more positive alternative to physical memorials. These options offer the opportunity to demonstrate caring for the deceased while at the same time permitting the community to move forward. In addition, they provide schools and families with the flexibility to “retire” these memorials as desired. Dedicating entire school annuals to a deceased staff member or student may also be problematic. It may be more appropriate to dedicate one page rather than an entire annual. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||
7. | CRITICAL INCIDENT STRESS DEBRIEFINGCritical Incident Stress Debriefing (CISD) is an early intervention initiative available to staff and students following the experience of a traumatic event. This service is aimed at reducing the distress experienced by individuals immediately following the event, and hopefully preventing the development of more serious difficulties. Schools/sites should consult with the district resource counsellor regarding the appropriateness of using CISD. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||
8. | MEDIA GUIDELINESRarely does a critical incident occur within or at a school without the media becoming interested. The degree of interest and variety of media involved usually depends on the nature of the critical incident and, in some cases, its relation to current issues or events. The principal or site manager should provide direction to media personnel and control access to students when they are on school property. Never should a reporter, camera person or television crew be left on their own while on school property. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||
9. | REFERENCES AND RELATED DOCUMENTS
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10. | AUTHORITY AND RESPONSIBILITY
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11. | HISTORY
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